CHOICES

Can someone please tell me who first thought that being gay was a choice?
Please tell me how they came to that particular conclusion?
Because how does a small child in elementary school,
who never heard the word before,
CHOOSE to like girls as more than just friends.
How in middle school, she
CHOSE to be made fun of for never saying who she liked in fear of what people may say.
Who in high school,
CHOSE to be a butch girl, commonly mistaken for a boy,
and is often asked who their girlfriend is,
only to be yelled at for answering in her female voice.
So please, do tell.
How does one CHOOSE a harder life than needed,
                        CHOOSE to be hated by everyone
                        CHOOSE to risk dying alone
Maybe you CHOSE to be straight, but I sure as HELL never CHOSE this!